• there is nothing mean , cruel , fear provoking or abusive about cesars way. it is about bonding , while setting rules and limitations, not punihment, he never punishes a dog , and positive reinforcement is the way the dog gets it a nd relaxes in turn. cesars way lets on the idea of understanding the dogs state of mind and act as a leader to limit or block unwanted behavior , and to reward good behavior. training a dog is conditioning it to do a behavior, not to give it leadership. you can train a dog to sit , lay, fetch and roll over , and give it cookies , and all you have done is become its bitch, then you try a walk and it drags you down while chasing a dog, lmao. cesars way is the way, its not a tip , its a philosophy. vicoria stillwell is good too, and she uses the same instinctual tactics, but she doesnt teach it as well, maybe its just the people she works with , she knows wont get it, lol.