check out this link. a lot to read but very insightful. http://bttbab.com/wORKING%20TRAITS.htm or if you dont want to read all that, let this pictures do the talking. Reading it all will help a lot though and I highly recommend you take the time to educate yourself. Its easier to understand things when you've had the opportunity to investigate all sides of an issue. "Condemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance."