Thank you Desiree and thank your brother thank you as well Mastini-Mayhem.  I'm sorry I'm just now responding I haven't been on in a while.  Desiree I did pass along the information to my son and Mastini what you're saying sounds similar to Desiree's brother but I'll just have to have my son do more with my dog.  My son has started the ignore and when I'm not around they get along fine together and this is what REALLY has me baffled.  Once again thank you BOTH, we're working on it and I'll keep you posted.