About this co-dependency -phase. It is quite strenuous, as said, she crawls in my bed and insists to sleep tight to me, preferably laying on me and she weights a bit. If you try to close her outside the bedroom, she gets anxious and no-one sleeps after that. She follows me everywhere jealously watching after that no-one else gets between me and her. I'm so glad that we do not have children.... :roll: